- There are half-full, brightly-colored plastic cups on the floor in every room. Three are in the bathtub.
- There’s always that one girl, bawling her eyes out in a corner.
- It’s best not to assume that the person closest to you has any control over their digestive function.
- You sneak off to the bathroom knowing that as soon as you sit down, someone’s going to start banging on the door.
- Probably 80% of the stains on the furniture contain DNA.
- You’ve got someone in your face at 3 a.m. looking for a drink.
- There’s definitely going to be a fight.
- You’re not sure whether anything you’re doing is right, you just hope it won’t get you arrested.
- There are crumpled-up underpants everywhere.
- You wake up wondering exactly how and when the person in bed with you got there.
Category Archives: Domestic Arts
Mail Call
I want Claire to have a mailbox for pretend play (inspiration came from No Time For Flash Cards), but we don’t need yet another plastic toy around, and I could use the money on something else. Besides, any day we use paint is considered a good day according to Claire. 🙂
So I dug out a shoebox, and Claire painted it. Blue blue blue! I painted on the word, then gave it a coat of Mod-Podge to seal it. Voila!
Frugal Toy
Yesterday Claire and I went to Happy Hollow Park and Zoo. We had lots of fun with the rides. One of the featured activities was Cardboard City. Visitors are encouraged to play and create a city of cardboard based on imagination in the Meadow, using old boxes and paint. And this gave me an idea.
I’ve been wanting to give Claire a barn to play with, but many of them are outrageously expensive. So I found an old box and, with a little cutting and taping and painting, ended up with a barn. Claire helped me paint the barn red. Then I took over with the roof and trim, and collaged the inside of the box. I’ve had the paint, paper, and tape on hand for years, so for a very minimal cost we have a toy barn! It may not last as long as a wooden one, but we had fun making it (especially me). Now all we need are some farm animals!
Ordinary Life = Joy
Four days after our move, our washer went kaput (after 12 years of faithful service). This occurred on a day that Claire decided to try to, erm, clean up her poopy diaper while in her crib for a nap. So, Husband did fast research on Consumer Reports, and we went to Sears. We now have a high-efficiency washer and matching dryer! In the video below, Claire demonstrates the attitude that I try to live by as written about by my friend, Karen Maezen Miller of Cheerio Road.
Home!
The move went smoothly. It rained, which is unusual for this area this time of year, but it wasn’t bad. We did not have a home phone or Internet connection for more than a week, however. I didn’t have withdrawals; instead I used that time to unpack, and except for a about 10 boxes of books and decorative items, we are entirely settled in! Below is a photo of Claire enjoying a corner of our back yard under the small cherry tree (which is producing cherries!), and a photo of my view from the kitchen window in the morning.
More writing to come at some point soon.
The Latest
Packing, packing, packing, sick kid, Urgent Care, ear infection, packing, packing, 104F fever, coddling, cuddling, rocking, dosing, televisioning, sorting, packing. Oh my god, still more packing!. Haven’t made a dent and yet have a ton of boxes already.
We move in two weeks. Husband is at the house doing all sorts of little things to prepare it, and we’re waiting for a couple of small messy jobs to get done. Then cleaning, then moving.
Hands Like These
These are the hands of my mother (on the right) and my aunt (her only sibling).
These hands have kneaded dough, stirred soup, opened jars with stuck lids, chopped onions, basted roasts, shucked corn, grated cheese, sliced melon.
These hands have caressed fevered foreheads, wiped bottoms, rubbed calamine lotion on sunburn, brushed unruly tangled hair, cleaned vomit off floors, rolled hair in curlers, pulled splinters out with tweezers, dabbed ointment on boils, applied bandaids, pulled loose teeth.
These hands have waxed floors, scrubbed toilets, ironed shirts, dusted knick-knacks, pushed vacuums, refinished furniture, swept porches, laundered everyone’s dirty clothes, painted walls, hammered nails, turned screwdrivers.
These hands have potted plants, pulled weeds, raked leaves, picked tomatoes off the vine, arranged flowers, pruned bushes.
These hands have assembled costumes for school plays, sewn clothing for children, darned socks, hemmed pants, mended torn shirts, crocheted afghans.
These hands have wrapped thousands of Christmas and birthday presents.
These hands have caught balls, thrown frisbees, moved game pieces, shuffled cards, clapped at recitals, played the piano.
These hands have crafted holiday decorations, frosted cakes, demonstrated cooking techniques, made decoupage.
These hands have been chilled to the bone, cut with knives, burned on stoves, soaked with cleansers, pricked with needles, flaked and cracked from chapping.
These hands have rubbed sore necks, hugged tightly, tucked in, stroked tense backs, wiped away tears, tickled feet, held books to read, applied cosmetics, adorned necks and arms with jewelry.
These hands have written checks, counted pennies, rolled spare change, balanced budgets, cut coupons, drawn up menus, typed reports, composed email, penned letters, filed papers, driven cars to ferry others to appointments.
These hands have on rare occasion smacked an impertinent young fanny.
These hands have been used when counting to ten in the search for patience.
These hands have been clasped in prayer.
These hands have waved good-bye to their mother and father and children.
These hands have held life.
These hands have created.
These hands have wisdom.
Someday, I hope to have hands like these.
Happy Mother’s Day!
This is a re-post of an entry from October 2005.
The Beginning
Lookee what I made! I finally took a lesson on how to use the sewing machine I was given for my birthday 11 months ago. Now that I know my way around the machine (the basics, at least) there will be no stopping me. This one is for Claire. (Pillowcases, anyone? When I learned to knit, all I made for the longest time were scarves. You can happily knit just scarves for a long time. I can see the same thing with pillowcases.)
Sometimes
Some days I look at my child and am astounded that she has made another leap toward growing up. Today was such a day. She rarely permits me to “do” her hair, but today I insisted on trying pigtails, which she loved. But oh! She looked so much older with them, and her thoughts and speech are becoming increasingly sophisticated. Her imagination soars. I sit and watch her. I hang out with her and play. I soak in each moment that I’m capable of bringing my full attention to; it’s all going so fast, and once it’s gone, it’s just… gone. She was once a wee babe that I cherished, but that’s ancient history; yet I’m not sad because I paid attention to what she was then. I didn’t focus on a future time when she’d be walking, or telling stories, because I knew that would come and didn’t want to miss what was right in front of me. I’m so lucky to have this bit of wisdom by which to live (thanks to my mother and my friend, Karen), and I’m so lucky to be Claire’s mom.
Hopping Down the Bunny Trail
Claire and I made this little collage, courtesy of my favorite idea site… and left real carrots out for the Easter bunny.
Easter Egg Fun
On Keeping the Sabbath
I just heard a fascinating interview on Fresh Air with Judith Shulevitz as the guest.
She has written a book about the history of the Jewish sabbath and also included a memoir about her own journey into keeping Sabbath customs. I found her lyrical and articulate, and her views impressed me. What I especially appreciate is the concept of resting as a community, and of stepping back from our attempt to manipulate and control the world for one day.
For one day each week, the Sabbath encourages us to enter into a moment outside of ordinary time and all the cares associated with it. I can’t do her ideas justice; it’s worth a listen.
Even for an agnostic such as me, it was worth a listen. And now I want to read the book. It resonates the way the Unplug campaign did. I found that the weekend I unplugged for one day, I felt more centered. Last weekend I did not unplug, and I felt I hadn’t even had a weekend!
Go here for more information and to listen to the interview.
Last Day To Bid
Today is the last day for the To Haiti With Love auction. While I’m pleased that my items have had some bids, I’d like to point out some other products for auction in case hand-knits aren’t your wish.
There is a wide array of books — inspirational books, children’s books, poetry — offered.
Are you looking for a grown-up indulgence, such as a ski weekend in Telluride, handcrafted soaps, a creativity coaching session? Look here.
How about some artwork to hang on the wall in a beloved toddler or baby’s room, or a handmade wood toy, or lovingly crafted clothing? You can find some here.
There is a wide selection of gorgeous fine art photography to bid on.
Perhaps you’re looking for a new journal to write in.
These are just a few items available. Check out the site! All proceeds go to assist St. Joseph’s Family of Homes.
Bidding is easy! Just leave a bid in the comment section for the item you want. More details are here.
My Little Chef
Claire has grown so very much. She always wants to help me in the kitchen. I’m working on finding ways to get the cooking done and encouraging her participation.













