The gratitude that we encounter helps us believe in the goodness of the world, and strengthens us thereby to do what’s good.
–Albert Schweitzer
Category Archives: Quotes
Close To The Bone
Gratitude is so close to the bone of life, pure and true, that it instantly stops the rational mind, and all its planning and plotting.
–Regina Sara Ryan, Praying Dangerously
Silence Augmented
Keep silence, keep silence, for by virtue of the command “Be!”
that silence of bewilderment has augmented beyond all speech.–Rumi
The Bell Tolls Unceasingly
The radical is that unique person who actually believes what he says. He is that person to whom the common good is the greatest personal value. He is that person who genuinely and completely believes in humankind. The radical is so completely identified with humankind that he personally shares the pain, the injustices, and the sufferings of all his fellow humans. For the radical the bell tolls unceasingly, and every manÂ’s struggle is his fight.
–Saul Alinsky
Openness For Surprise
Only gratefulness, in the form of limitless openness for surprise, lays hold of the fullness of life in hope.
–David Steindl-Rast, Gratefulness, the Heart of Prayer
Just A Thought
Whether we are saddened or elated by the prospect of another four years, now is not the time for depression or gloating. Jesus called on his followers to be peacemakers, and told them that they would be called the sons of God. This promise still exists for us today. These are simple but powerful words. If they worked in ChristÂ’s time, why shouldn’t they work today as we struggle to rid the world of terror? It is easy to pay our taxes, abide by the rule of law, and otherwise dutifully give to Caesar what is CaesarÂ’s. But what about the second half of that commandment? In the end, only when we each become a peacemaker will we achieve the unity that politicians of all stripes are fond of giving lip service to.
–Johann Christoph Arnold
[via Bruderhof Communities]
Even The Weakest
I’m posting this as a reminder to myself that small-scale decisions and efforts remain the ingredients of the whole. I’m not going to give up, despite my discouragement.
There is something about life that, little by little, makes us forget all that is good. This can happen to anyone… and so we must look for a cure against it. Praise be that such a cure exists: the act of quietly making a decision. A decision stirs the mind from the slumber of monotony. A decision breaks the magic spell of custom and the long row of weary thoughts. A decision will bring blessings upon even the weakest beginning. A decision is an awakening to the eternal.
–Soren Kierkegaard
Create A New Mood
From The New York Times: Waiting for a President:
If he is going to succeed at achieving anything of substance, the next president will have to help the nation reach some new place where elected officials expect that rewards can be won from cooperation and mutual respect. Right now, we are in the peculiar position of suffering political paralysis, despite the fact that there is a clear consensus on most questions of policy.
Any pollster, and any reasonable politician, can tell you what most Americans want, particularly when it comes to a domestic agenda. Pick the moderate position on almost any issue — Social Security, gay rights, taxes — and you will find the public right behind you. But lawmakers can’t lead themselves into a bipartisan consensus. Only a president can create a new mood, and he can do it only by sacrificing his own short-term political advantage on occasion for the common good.
Then this, via Fatshadow:
The good news: America is a divided nation. Despite the pundit hand-wringing over this fact, it is a positive thing. Nearly — nearly — half of the electorate rejected Bush’s leadership, his agenda, his priorities, his falsehoods. From Eminem to the chairman of Bank of America to 48 Nobel laureates to gangbangers who joined anti-Bush get-out-the-vote efforts in swing states. Nearly half of the voting public concluded that Bush had caused the deaths of over 1100 American GIs and literally countless Iraqis (maybe 100,000) for no compelling reason. Nearly half saw the emperor buck naked and butt ugly. Nearly half said no to his rash actions and dishonest justifications. Nearly half realized that Bush had misrepresented the war in Iraq as a crucial part of the effort against al Qaeda and Islamic jihadism. Nearly half desired better and more honest leadership. Nearly half knew that Bush has led the country astray.
Welcome Happy News
Crabby has a new family member. Being a crazy cat lady myself (and sensing I might have been a cat in a previous lifetime, if such exists), I rejoice with her. This little nugget articulates my experience precisely:
The beauty of cats takes my breath away. The pleasure I gain from their appearance, grace and attitude – and watching their own pleasure at those same attributes – never wanes; it has never been easy to resist adding more.
As stated by Michel de Montaigne, “When I play with my cat, who knows whether she is not
amusing herself with me more than I with her?” I do enjoy the flirtation.
Life Is Always On The Edge Of Death
The real damage is done by those millions who want to “survive.” The honest men who just want to be left in peace. Those who don’t want their little lives disturbed by anything bigger than themselves. Those with no sides and no causes. Those who won’t take measure of their own strength, for fear of antagonizing their own weakness. Those who don’t like to make waves — or enemies. Those for whom freedom, honor, truth, and principles are only literature. Those who live small, mate small, die small. It’s the reductionist approach to life: if you keep it small, you’ll keep it under control. If you don’t make any noise, the bogeyman won’t find you. But it’s all an illusion, because they die too, those people who roll up their spirits into tiny little balls so as to be safe. Safe?! From what? Life is always on the edge of death; narrow streets lead to the same place as wide avenues, and a little candle burns itself out just like a flaming torch does. I choose my own way to burn.
–Sophie Scholl
For Each And Every One
I had a nice long chat with my Mom last night, catching up on her life and updating her on mine. We always cover a range of topics. At one point I mused that I was feeling homesick, and that handling a book about psychology careers the other day gave me a pang for what I’ve left behind. I’m not about to undergo the same training all over again — the cost in money and time are prohibitive — and I’m too new here to have discovered what alternatives exist. I’m leaning toward a life coach practice, but even so, it will take time to build. I am starting over.
This morning I awoke and found an email from her, and I’m sharing because it’s a beautiful prayer. I was raised Catholic; though I no longer practice, I find much wisdom in Christianity, just as I do in other religions.
St. Theresa’s Prayer:
Today may there be peace within.
May you trust in the highest power, knowing that you
are exactly where you are meant to be.
May you not forget the infinite possibilities that are born of faith.
May you use the spiritual gifts that you possess,
and pass on the love that has been given to you.
May you be content knowing you are a child of God…
Let His presence settle into your bones.
Allow your soul the freedom to sing, dance, praise, and love.
It is there for each and every one of you.
Fresh Air
Staying inside the house breeds a sort of insanity always. Every house is in this sense a hospital. A night and a forenoon is as much confinement to those wards as I can stand — and then I must go outdoors.
–Henry David Thoreau
Ah, Woody
I was thrown out of college for cheating on the metaphysics exam; I looked into the soul of the boy next to me.
–Woody Allen
For Siona
Today’s post is created with the intention of celebrating Siona’s birthday. Her care has been comforting and vital in my transition to the west coast. She is a lovely, sweet soul. I hope today she feels how much she is loved.
So Much Happiness It is difficult to know what to do with so much happiness.
With sadness there is something to rub against,
a wound to tend with lotion and cloth.
When the world falls in around you, you have pieces to
pick up,
something to hold in your hands, like ticket stubs,
or change.But happiness floats.
It doesn’t need you to hold it down.
It doesn’t need anything.
Happiness lands on the roof of the next house, singing,
and disappears when it wants to.
You are happy either way.
Even the fact that you once lived in a peaceful tree house
and now live over a quarry of noise and dust
cannot make you unhappy.
Everything has a life of its own,
it too could wake up filled with possibilities
of coffee cake and ripe peaches,
and love even the floor which needs to be swept,
the soiled linens and scratched records…Since there is no place large enough
to contain so much happiness,
you shrug, you raise your hands, and it flows out of you
into everything you touch. You are not responsible.
You take no credit, as the night sky takes no credit
for the moon, but continues to hold it, and share it,
and in that way, be known.–Naomi Shihab Nye
Because We Need A Blessing
I found this in a book on texts to use for a wedding, and it brought tears to my eyes. It captured and distilled my own experience. I may use it in my own upcoming wedding.
A Prayer For a Wedding
because everyone knows exactly what’s good for another
because very few see
because a man and a woman may just possibly look at each other
because in the insanity of human relationships there still
may come a time we say: yes, yes
because a man or a woman can do anything he or she pleases
because you can reach any point in your life saying: now, I want
this
because eventually it occurs we want each other, we want
to know each other, even stupidly, even uglily
because there is at best a simple need in two people to try
and reach some simple ground
because that simple ground is not so simple
because we are human beings gathered together whether
we like it or not
because we are human beings reaching out to touch
because sometimes we grow
we ask a blessing on this marriage
we ask that some simplicity be allowed
we ask their happiness
we ask that this couple be known for what it is,
and that the light shine upon it
we ask a blessing for their marriage
–Joel Oppenheimer
To Be Divine
I wonder if women’s special problem with food did not start with Eve and the apple. Eve wanted “more” out of life, and food became the symbolic representation of her cravings for knowledge. Male scholars like to see apple-eating as a symbol for sexual desire, but Eve’s daughters may be closer to the real meaning when they equate food with existential hungerings to be divinities themselves.
–Angela Barron McBride, “Fat Is Generous, Nurturing, Warm…,” Overcoming Fear of Fat
If I Knew Today
If I knew that today would be the last time IÂ’d see you, I would hug you tight and pray the Lord be the keeper of your soul. If I knew that this would be the last time you pass through this door, IÂ’d embrace you, kiss you, and call you back for one more. If I knew that this would be the last time I would hear your voice, IÂ’d take hold of each word to be able to hear it over and over again. If I knew this is the last time I see you, IÂ’d tell you I love you, and would not just assume foolishly you know it already.
–Gabriel Garcia Marquez
Dear Internet,
Your presence in my life means a great deal to me. I’ve “met” numerous good souls through blogging and surfing. You’re a wonderful community.
That said, last night’s news about my friend’s devastating loss made me aware of numerous three-dee people from whom I have withheld myself lately. Some of these folks are far, far away. I can’t control the geographical distance or the time difference. I have a job which requires hours of my life. When the above quote landed in my inbox, I decided it’s time to take a break and make the effort to interact in slightly more immediate ways. I’ve been robbing myself and my loved ones of connection, and the pendulum needs to swing the other way for awhile.
I’ll be back in a few. I’ll probably post haiku as usual. Otherwise, there’s a lengthy blogroll to peruse.
Ramadan, Food, and Body Love
I came to Egypt and all the restrictions and carefully plotted exercise routines flew out the window. It’s impossible to avoid this food and stock up on that and do 15 minutes of cross training before your stint on the treadmill in Egypt. There are no nutrition labels. The only thing carb-free is the malnourished kid on your doorstep.
–Willow, Life as a Dervish
Willow’s post is a sweet meditation on body love and food, and her experience of Ramadan in helping her become more conscious of the relationship between the two. Another passage of hers that hit a chord:
It’s not part of the Shaheda—the oath one takes when one becomes a Muslim—but implicit in the boundaries of the religion is the following: you shall not, under any circumstances, knowingly fuck up your body ever again. Not through drinking or drugs or sex with someone who doesn’t love you. Bizarrely, this is perhaps the hardest aspect of the religion to follow…we don’t realize how used we are to letting our heads run the rest of us, or how hard it is to break free of that particular kind of bondage. The soul, I’ve discovered, is much more closely connected to the body than to the mind, despite what we commonly think. In tandem, they help each other, and the gentle pressure from each to each makes it possible, ever so slowly, to pry oneself free from one’s maladies.
Bless you, Willow, for reminding me.
[via Siona]
Rise Up And
Let us rise up and be thankful,
for if we didn’t learn a lot today,
at least we learned a little,
and if we didn’t learn a little,
at least we didn’t get sick, and if we got sick,
at least we didn’t die;
so let us all be thankful.–Buddha, from breath by breath
[via whiskey river]
Comfort The Grieving
An excerpt from a poem by Adrienne Rich, titled Afterward:
Now that your hopes are shamed, you stand
At last believing and resigned,
And none of us who touch your hand
Know how to give you back in kind.
A dear friend called tonight to inform me that her husband committed suicide this weekend. My heart is broken for her.
Please, if you’re considering suicide, read this first. Also, a visit here will provide more links to hotline numbers. There is hope. Please hold on and reach out.
