I found this in a book on texts to use for a wedding, and it brought tears to my eyes. It captured and distilled my own experience. I may use it in my own upcoming wedding.

A Prayer For a Wedding because everyone knows exactly what’s good for another because very few see because a man and a woman may just possibly look at each other because in the insanity of human relationships there still     may come a time we say: yes, yes because a man or a woman can do anything he or she pleases because you can reach any point in your life saying: now, I want     this because eventually it occurs we want each other, we want     to know each other, even stupidly, even uglily because there is at best a simple need in two people to try     and reach some simple ground because that simple ground is not so simple because we are human beings gathered together whether     we like it or not because we are human beings reaching out to touch because sometimes we grow     we ask a blessing on this marriage     we ask that some simplicity be allowed     we ask their happiness     we ask that this couple be known for what it is,     and that the light shine upon it     we ask a blessing for their marriage –Joel Oppenheimer