My horoscope from Rob Breszny.
Is your schedule too rigid to allow magic to seep in? Then mutate that schedule, please. Is your brain so crammed with knowledgeable opinions that no fresh perceptions can crack their way in? Then flush out some of those opinions. Is your heart so puckered by the stings of the past that it can’t burst forth with any expansive new invitations? Then unpucker your heart, for God’s sake.
I’ve been feeling mighty puckered of late. It nags me, this awareness that I’m not kind inside my head. I mean this — I really, truly have a nasty, gnarly, judgmental, denigrating, callous aspect that is far more vocal than I would like. A couple of other statements caught my attention that I wish to enlarge, print, and plaster where I will see it. One I found at Jack’s Zen blog.
The three marks of an awakened life are presence, happiness, and kindness.
I agree that these are some of the marks. I also believe that happiness follows from kindness. My unkind thoughts indicate I’m not so happy and increase my unhappiness. One way to alter this is the consciously practice redirection of thought. Consciously regarding people with compassion lightens my soul, which nurtures happiness. Usually, when I am not present, I am thinking about an annoyance in the past, a worry about the future, or some other abstract construct about what life and people should or should not be.
Another passage caught my eye; it’s in the “about me” section of a blog that’s new to me, True and Useful.
I once read in a Buddhist text that we should aspire to speak only what is true and useful. Of course, what is true and useful for some might seem dishonest or of no value to others. Still, it seems worth the effort to pass our never-ending stream of thoughts through a true and useful filter before expressing them as spoken words.
And what if we apply this filter not only to what we speak but also to what we hear and read? How much of the information that bombards us daily is both true and useful? Does much of it seem either true but of dubious value or appear to be helpful but turn out to be false?
Fortunately, I do manage to apply a filter to my speech much of the time. I’ll give myself props for that. However, what I’d really like is to avoid manufacturing those thoughts completely. Also, I think applying this filter to what one absorbs is a worthy idea.
Back to Free Will Astrology. Breszny followed the horoscope with a “sacred advertisement,” and I rather enjoyed it. The ones that intrigued or resonated most are bold.
SACRED ADVERTISEMENT
While you and I are together here:
- Your favorite phrase is flux gusto
- The colors of your soul are sable, vermilion, ivory, and jade
- Your magic talisman is a thousand-year-old Joshua tree whose flowers blossom just one night each year and can only be pollinated by the yucca moth
- Your holiest pain comes from your yearning to change yourself in the exact way you’d like the world around you to change
- Your soil of destiny is peat moss
- Your mythic symbol is a treasure chest dislodged from its hiding place in the earth by a flood
- Your lucky number is 13 to the 13th power
- Your sweet spot is in between the true believers and the scoffing skeptics
- A clutch of frog eggs from an unpolluted river is your auspicious hair-care product
- The anonymous celebrity with whom you have most in common is the jester who followed Buddha around and kept him loose
- The question that perks you up when your routine becomes too rote is this: What possesses the bar-tailed godwit to migrate annually from Alaska to New Zealand by hitching rides on gale-force winds?

Perhaps it is a naive and simplistic response to your feeling that your unkind thoughts are contributing to your unhappiness, but I’m thinking you are neglecting to “consciously regard” YOURSELF “with compassion”. In your own words, it may “lighten your soul” if you can do so. I see someone who is so self-reflective and concerned to have positive effect that they are not seeing the good that is coming through them. “Unpucker your heart” sounds like wonderful advice! We only have one, and it doesn’t last long.
Ah yes, your point is well taken. I need to remember that my overall actions towards positive effect have substance and need to be recognized at least as much as I recognize my thoughts. Thanks for pointing that out, Imelda.
As the actions you take during the flow of your life brings happiness to others, and you observe that, you will derive happiness from your actions and their positive results.
Your own tiime flow…second-by-second…is the one true personal resource which your mind can control; it is an asset which is finite, and best spent on meaningful and thoughtful pursuits. In our society, however, diversions have been created to absorb personal time flow for those who do not have a plan of their own to spend their own time fruitfully…remember that the Coliseum was crowded with spectators!
Bill
The Buddhists suggest that during mindfulness meditation we label our thoughts “thinking” as a way of acknowledging and then letting them go. Lately, I’m trying to use the “thinking” label as I go about my daily life. It seems to help reign in the power of thoughts, especially the negative and angry ones, at least some of the time. I have found that trying to avoid manufacturing thoughts increases production in my thought factory. P.S. Thanks for your insights.
Limbo is the hardest place to me. It seems like you’re there with your job right now. It steals sleep and quietness. I hope you find your next place soon.