Though this quote pertains to ministry, the work of psychotherapy was also rooted in what the words below describe.
When people come to speak to me, whatever they say, I am struck by a kind of incandescence in them, the “I” whose predicate can be “love” or “fear” or want,” and whose object can be “someone” or “nothing” and it won’t really matter, because the loveliness is just in that presence, shaped around “I” like a flame on a wick, emanating itself in grief and guilt and joy and whatever else. But quick, and avid, and resourceful. To see this aspect of life is a privilege of the ministry which is seldom mentioned.
–Marilynne Robinson, Gilead

I tried to read Gilead and just couldn’t get into it. I listen to books on CD a lot–from library–and just finished it on CD. Now I may get it because some of the wisdom I heard from this older man to his young son was so simple and profound.