Claire understands more every day and demonstrates it in many ways. Here are some examples.
- The other day we were getting ready to leave, and I was searching for her sippy cup. As I looked around I said, “Where’s your cup? We need it to go bye-bye.” I continued to scan the living room muttering that I had just seen it somewhere. Then I turned around, and Claire was toddling back from the kitchen with the cup in her hands, and she walked over to the diaper bag and laid it on the top.
- When I ask her if she needs a dry or clean diaper, sometimes she nods yes. When I tell her we need to go change her diaper, she walks over to the stairs and waits for me to open the gate.
- Claire will stand at her bookcase and pull books off the shelves one after another as she searches for the book she wants read to her. Sometimes I’ve suggested a book (Let’s read Trucks!) and she finds a book about trucks and hands it to me.
- I started asking her to say “please” when she wants a book re-read to her. A couple of times she did say it, but then she decided to resist. She’ll shake her head, say “No,” and emphatically make the sign for more. If I persist in telling her to say please, she gets mad and upset. I’ve decided that when it comes to saying please, I’ll start with modeling the behavior for her. I also don’t want to get into a fight with her about saying please at this age, especially over reading books. And while I think she understands the concept of “no” to some degree, I also think she gets confused. There are times she says no when she clearly means yes.
- When she hears a plane (or helicopter), she declares Pane! Pane! When she hears the rumble of a loud truck engine, she says Ca! Ca! (her word for truck). Also, when she sees a plane in the sky, even when it’s very small because it’s far away, she becomes excited and shouts her word for it and babbles. Sometimes she mistakes a bird in flight for a plane as well, but she’s starting to make the distinction. The other day she pointed to a black bird and said crow (though the “r” sounds like “w” still).
She’s also added new words: bag, bear, bow-wow, bubbles, bus, crow, foot, neigh, ooo-ooo (monkey), pop, poop, quack, sneeze, tummy, tunnel.


And what is our Miss Claire going to be for Halloween?
Sunday was trick or treat here and not a single kid showed up.
Kinda bummed me out.
(That photo of the sunflower made me think your girl would make a great sunflower–and you, you crafty person, you, could probably make a great sunflower costume for her.)
Hello Kathryn! My name is Diana, I’m from Brazil, and I was looking for some mandalas on internet coz’ I want to do a tatoo.
I’ve found a picture of one mandala that you painted… in this link… http://www.flickr.com/photos/mindfulone/830582329/
Could you tell me what this mandala means?
I was thinking in a love mandala, or peace mandala… I really liked this one and I want to know what it means…
Can you help me?
If you do know the meaning, can you send me an email?
I’ll be very happy!
Thanks and I’m sorry for bothering you, and for my english!
Kisses
Diana
PS: your daughter is beautiful!
Funny about the “please.” Once, a few years back, we were eating dinner at our house when Babycakes was here for a sleepover. She wanted something, and didn’t say “please.” We said words to the effect of “how are you supposed to ask?” and “what are you supposed to say?” (We do not say these things with grim looks or any indication that we are upset with her). This went on for a spell and she finally announced, “I’m not going to say please!” Of course we just fell about the place laughing.
We both believe she learned how to be deliberately funny at an early age, and she hasn’t quit yet.
Oh, she has announced to me that until Halloween is over her name is “Ghostiecakes” and not “Babycakes.”