{"id":8498,"date":"2014-08-19T09:37:53","date_gmt":"2014-08-19T16:37:53","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.kathrynpetroharper.com\/mindfullife\/?p=8498"},"modified":"2026-01-27T13:40:58","modified_gmt":"2026-01-27T21:40:58","slug":"how-to-love","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.kathrynpetroharper.com\/mindfullife\/2014\/08\/19\/how-to-love\/","title":{"rendered":"How to Love"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>This video was played at <a href=\"http:\/\/uuflg.org\">church<\/a> Sunday for the kids. While it seems sad, it provided a seed for discussion. We watched it again this morning. Bean&#8217;s thoughts about what the squid could do: &#8220;Stroke the boats, like a cat. Or find submarines to hang out with.&#8221; We talked about how you don&#8217;t have to possess someone to love her; if we hold too tight we hurt the person&#8217;s spirit and destroy the love. Being NEXT TO someone is not the same as being alone.<br \/>\n<center><object width=\"420\" height=\"236\"><param name=\"movie\" value=\"\/\/www.youtube.com\/v\/xmZJjz3KwjM?hl=en_US&amp;version=3&amp;rel=0\"><\/param><param name=\"allowFullScreen\" value=\"true\"><\/param><param name=\"allowscriptaccess\" value=\"always\"><\/param><embed src=\"\/\/www.youtube.com\/v\/xmZJjz3KwjM?hl=en_US&amp;version=3&amp;rel=0\" type=\"application\/x-shockwave-flash\" width=\"420\" height=\"236\" allowscriptaccess=\"always\" allowfullscreen=\"true\"><\/embed><\/object><\/center><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>This video was played at church Sunday for the kids. While it seems sad, it provided a seed for discussion. We watched it again this morning. Bean&#8217;s thoughts about what the squid could do: &#8220;Stroke the boats, like a cat. Or find submarines to hang out with.&#8221; We talked about how you don&#8217;t have to [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[24,111,219],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-8498","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-arts","category-buddhism","category-spirit"],"post_mailing_queue_ids":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kathrynpetroharper.com\/mindfullife\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8498","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kathrynpetroharper.com\/mindfullife\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kathrynpetroharper.com\/mindfullife\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kathrynpetroharper.com\/mindfullife\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kathrynpetroharper.com\/mindfullife\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=8498"}],"version-history":[{"count":6,"href":"https:\/\/www.kathrynpetroharper.com\/mindfullife\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8498\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":13486,"href":"https:\/\/www.kathrynpetroharper.com\/mindfullife\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8498\/revisions\/13486"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kathrynpetroharper.com\/mindfullife\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=8498"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kathrynpetroharper.com\/mindfullife\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=8498"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kathrynpetroharper.com\/mindfullife\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=8498"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}