{"id":2274,"date":"2008-03-03T08:32:42","date_gmt":"2008-03-03T16:32:42","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.kathrynpetroharper.com\/mindfullife\/2008\/03\/03\/reassurance\/"},"modified":"2026-01-31T20:42:30","modified_gmt":"2026-02-01T04:42:30","slug":"reassurance","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.kathrynpetroharper.com\/mindfullife\/2008\/03\/03\/reassurance\/","title":{"rendered":"Reassurance"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>From an email I wrote to a friend who has several children (but it was also me talking to myself and thus worth it to me to post):<\/p>\n<p>Please tell me the fact that my daughter isn&#8217;t sitting unassisted at six months is okay. She&#8217;s long and petite; doesn&#8217;t have a lot of ballast in the butt to anchor her. (I don&#8217;t know what I&#8217;ll do when the next person to meet her says, &#8220;She&#8217;s so <em>SMALL<\/em>!&#8221; That\u2019s one of two things people ALWAYS say. The other is, &#8220;She&#8217;s so alert!&#8221; I&#8217;m tempted to start saying that she makes up with brains what she lacks in brawn.)<\/p>\n<p>Please tell me that my daughter flipping herself from tummy to back constantly doesn&#8217;t mean she&#8217;s never going to develop creeping, crawling, and walking. She flipped herself from tummy to back at the age of two weeks (she hated tummy time). Now she&#8217;ll accept it and remain on her tummy a few minutes, but it&#8217;s not her favorite thing. She has rolled from back to tummy a few times lately. I&#8217;m looking forward to when she makes the connection that she can control both ways.<\/p>\n<p>Please help me remember that my daughter has been ill the past week and that it&#8217;s okay if we don&#8217;t do a whole lot of stimulating stuff. And it&#8217;s okay that I find things repetitive and tedious sometimes. <\/p>\n<p>I know it&#8217;s not a contest, this raising of children. But sometimes being around other parents tempts comparison. <\/p>\n<p>I can tell you this: I marvel at my daughter&#8217;s curiosity and sweetness. She is pure. And loving. And adorable. I&#8217;m very, very blessed to be her mother.<\/p>\n<p>And her Aunt LP arrives Thursday for another visit! I hope by then Husband is over his second bad cold and Bean is over her first, so we can all enjoy our visit. \ud83d\ude42<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>From an email I wrote to a friend who has several children (but it was also me talking to myself and thus worth it to me to post): Please tell me the fact that my daughter isn&#8217;t sitting unassisted at six months is okay. She&#8217;s long and petite; doesn&#8217;t have a lot of ballast in [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[34,16],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2274","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-motherhood","category-nature"],"post_mailing_queue_ids":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kathrynpetroharper.com\/mindfullife\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2274","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kathrynpetroharper.com\/mindfullife\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kathrynpetroharper.com\/mindfullife\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kathrynpetroharper.com\/mindfullife\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kathrynpetroharper.com\/mindfullife\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2274"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/www.kathrynpetroharper.com\/mindfullife\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2274\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":13763,"href":"https:\/\/www.kathrynpetroharper.com\/mindfullife\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2274\/revisions\/13763"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kathrynpetroharper.com\/mindfullife\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2274"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kathrynpetroharper.com\/mindfullife\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2274"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kathrynpetroharper.com\/mindfullife\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2274"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}