{"id":2219,"date":"2008-01-13T20:37:00","date_gmt":"2008-01-14T04:37:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.kathrynpetroharper.com\/mindfullife\/2008\/01\/13\/someone-please-stop-me\/"},"modified":"2026-01-21T16:38:07","modified_gmt":"2026-01-22T00:38:07","slug":"someone-please-stop-me","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.kathrynpetroharper.com\/mindfullife\/2008\/01\/13\/someone-please-stop-me\/","title":{"rendered":"Someone Please Stop Me"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Please stop me from reading news reports like this from Florida:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>A medical examiner found dozens of internal and external injuries on Ariana&#8217;s body. The infant had five new fractures on her ribs and more than a dozen old fractures. There was a hematoma and a cut on her spleen. Her liver was bruised, as was her jaw.<\/p>\n<p>When questioned by a Polk County sheriff&#8217;s detective the day after Ariana died, Gomez-Romero said he was angry when his daughter was born because he wanted a son, reports said.<\/p>\n<p>Gomez-Romero, who lives in Winter Haven, told a detective he called his daughter an &#8220;ugly girl, a prostitute and deny [sic] she was his daughter,&#8221; a Sheriff&#8217;s Office report said.<\/p>\n<p>Gomez-Romero said he picked Ariana up by her hands to carry her. He said he spanked her several times out of anger because she would not stop crying.<\/p>\n<p>When a detective asked Gomez-Romero what a 4-month-old could do to warrant such severe punishment, the report said he stated, &#8220;Nothing.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Gomez-Romero made it clear that his anger and hostility towards his daughter was due to the fact that she was a girl and he had wanted a son,&#8221; the sheriff&#8217;s report said.<\/p>\n<p>Sheriff&#8217;s detectives also interviewed Ariana&#8217;s mother, Juana Rodriguez-Perez, who said Gomez-Romero would carry Ariana by her hands into the bedroom and close the door.<\/p>\n<p>Shortly after, the report said, their daughter would begin to cry.<\/p>\n<p>Rodriguez-Perez told the detective when she threatened to call the police on Ariana&#8217;s father, he would threaten to leave with their 2-year-old son.<br \/>\n<a href=\"http:\/\/www.orlandosentinel.com\/news\/local\/southwest\/orl-kill1108jan11,0,2353785.story?coll=orl_sports_highschool_basketball_util\"><br \/>\nPolk Dad Charged in Baby&#8217;s Death<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>The baby girl died Christmas Day.<\/p>\n<p>Why do I read these? It doesn&#8217;t help the victim. It doesn&#8217;t help me. Is it to feed some pathetic &#8220;better than thou&#8221; insecurity in myself? Is it a voyeuristic impulse to look at a train wreck? I suppose knowing <em>why<\/em> doesn&#8217;t do much &#8212; the only way to spare myself is to simply stop reading. The world would be better served if I donated time, money, or effort to a cause that helped abused children.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Please stop me from reading news reports like this from Florida: A medical examiner found dozens of internal and external injuries on Ariana&#8217;s body. The infant had five new fractures on her ribs and more than a dozen old fractures. There was a hematoma and a cut on her spleen. Her liver was bruised, as [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[25,34,29,31],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2219","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-education","category-motherhood","category-regional","category-social-science"],"post_mailing_queue_ids":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kathrynpetroharper.com\/mindfullife\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2219","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kathrynpetroharper.com\/mindfullife\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kathrynpetroharper.com\/mindfullife\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kathrynpetroharper.com\/mindfullife\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kathrynpetroharper.com\/mindfullife\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2219"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/www.kathrynpetroharper.com\/mindfullife\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2219\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":4539,"href":"https:\/\/www.kathrynpetroharper.com\/mindfullife\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2219\/revisions\/4539"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kathrynpetroharper.com\/mindfullife\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2219"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kathrynpetroharper.com\/mindfullife\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2219"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kathrynpetroharper.com\/mindfullife\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2219"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}