{"id":1165,"date":"2005-10-21T18:36:57","date_gmt":"2005-10-22T02:36:57","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.kathrynpetroharper.com\/mindfullife\/2005\/10\/21\/recognition\/"},"modified":"2026-01-21T16:26:26","modified_gmt":"2026-01-22T00:26:26","slug":"recognition","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.kathrynpetroharper.com\/mindfullife\/2005\/10\/21\/recognition\/","title":{"rendered":"Recognition"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I haven&#8217;t written a poem in two months, so I turned to my library for inspiration.<\/p>\n<table align=\"center\">\n<tr>\n<td><center><cite>Recognition<\/cite><\/center><br \/>Playing truth or dare an hour before daylight<br \/>among the bean trees, I encounter a stranger at the gate.<br \/>When I ask what she is doing, she replies, <br \/>&#8220;Composing a life.&#8221; She seeks to answer the question, <br \/>&#8220;Is there no place on earth for me?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>I ask how she will know the answer, and she says<br \/>she will track her progress in the stone diaries.<br \/>She has an amazing grace, this girl with a pearl earring <br \/>wearing borrowed finery, and I want to know more. <br \/>I ask with an open heart, open mind, what it is she seeks.<\/p>\n<p>She wants to understand the savage inequalities, <br \/>to have a reckoning with the fact that she lives<br \/>in a world where the poisonwood bible increasingly<br \/>becomes the rule of law. She wants to help people<br \/>to stop running with scissors and enjoy the perfection<br \/>of the morning. <\/p>\n<p>We are surrounded by landscapes of wonder, if we<br \/>would only make the effort to see differently.<\/p>\n<p>She in turn asks  what I seek. I reply that I want<br \/> the courage to be, to cast a slender thread<br \/>of hope into the sea, the sea of humanity.<br \/>I want to plant new seeds of contemplation,<br \/>embrace the grace in dying. I want to <br \/>know the mystery of tying rocks to clouds.<\/p>\n<p>From her angle of repose under oleander,<br \/>jacaranda, the magnificent spinster listens. <br \/>I tell her she has a beautiful mind, that<br \/>I can see the molecules of emotion swirling in her.<br \/>She tells me that I am a succulent wild woman,<br \/>that I have zen under a wing. She reminds me<br \/>that art is a way of knowing and solitude<br \/>a return to the self.<\/p>\n<p>Then we part, blessing each other with traveling<br \/>mercies, with a promise to meet again<br \/>at the healing circle in Gilead.<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<\/table>\n<p>If these words ring a bell for you, look below to see why.<br \/>\n<!--more--><br \/>\n<a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/exec\/obidos\/tg\/detail\/-\/0062508164\/qid=1129945200\/sr=8-1\/ref=pd_bbs_1\/102-1142358-9403301?v=glance&#038;s=books&#038;n=507846\" target=\"blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Truth or Dare <\/a><br \/>\n<a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/exec\/obidos\/tg\/detail\/-\/B0009Q000A\/qid=1129945241\/sr=8-1\/ref=sr_8_xs_ap_i1_xgl14\/102-1142358-9403301?v=glance&#038;s=books&#038;n=507846\" target=\"blank\" rel=\"noopener\">An Hour Before Daylight<\/a><br \/>\n<a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/exec\/obidos\/tg\/detail\/-\/0061097314\/qid=1129945286\/sr=8-1\/ref=pd_bbs_1\/102-1142358-9403301?v=glance&#038;s=books&#038;n=507846\" target=\"blank\" rel=\"noopener\">The Bean Trees<\/a><br \/>\n<a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/exec\/obidos\/tg\/detail\/-\/0452273811\/qid=1129945625\/sr=8-1\/ref=sr_8_xs_ap_i1_xgl14\/102-1142358-9403301?v=glance&#038;s=books&#038;n=507846\" target=\"blank\" rel=\"noopener\">A Stranger at the Gate<br \/>\n<a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/exec\/obidos\/tg\/detail\/-\/0452265053\/qid=1129945652\/sr=8-2\/ref=pd_bbs_2\/102-1142358-9403301?v=glance&#038;s=books&#038;n=507846\" target=\"blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Composing a Life <\/a><br \/>\n<a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/exec\/obidos\/tg\/detail\/-\/0394713788\/qid=1129945677\/sr=8-1\/ref=pd_bbs_1\/102-1142358-9403301?v=glance&#038;s=books&#038;n=507846\" target=\"blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Is There No Place on Earth for Me?<\/a><br \/>\n<a 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href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/exec\/obidos\/tg\/detail\/-\/0826406963\/qid=1129945897\/sr=8-1\/ref=pd_bbs_1\/102-1142358-9403301?v=glance&#038;s=books&#038;n=507846\" target=\"blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Open Mind, Open Heart<\/a><br \/>\n<a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/exec\/obidos\/tg\/detail\/-\/0060974990\/qid=1129945961\/sr=8-1\/ref=sr_8_xs_ap_i1_xgl14\/102-1142358-9403301?v=glance&#038;s=books&#038;n=507846\" target=\"blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Savage Inequalities<\/a><br \/>\n<a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/exec\/obidos\/tg\/detail\/-\/0393316211\/qid=1129945978\/sr=8-1\/ref=sr_8_xs_ap_i1_xgl14\/102-1142358-9403301?v=glance&#038;s=books&#038;n=507846\" target=\"blank\" rel=\"noopener\">A Reckoning <\/a><br \/>\n<a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/exec\/obidos\/tg\/detail\/-\/0060930535\/qid=1129945998\/sr=8-1\/ref=pd_bbs_1\/102-1142358-9403301?v=glance&#038;s=books&#038;n=507846\" target=\"blank\" rel=\"noopener\">The Poisonwood Bible<\/a><br \/>\n<a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/exec\/obidos\/tg\/detail\/-\/031242227X\/qid=1129946019\/sr=8-1\/ref=pd_bbs_1\/102-1142358-9403301?v=glance&#038;s=books&#038;n=507846\" target=\"blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Running With Scissors <\/a><br \/>\n<a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/exec\/obidos\/tg\/detail\/-\/1886913161\/qid=1129946038\/sr=8-2\/ref=sr_8_xs_ap_i2_xgl14\/102-1142358-9403301?v=glance&#038;s=books&#038;n=507846\" target=\"blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Perfection of the Morning<\/a><br \/>\n<a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/exec\/obidos\/tg\/detail\/-\/0861711424\/qid=1129946056\/sr=8-1\/ref=pd_bbs_1\/102-1142358-9403301?v=glance&#038;s=books&#038;n=507846\" target=\"blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Landscapes of Wonder<\/a><br \/>\n<a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/exec\/obidos\/tg\/detail\/-\/0962538604\/qid=1129946074\/sr=8-1\/ref=sr_8_xs_ap_i1_xgl14\/102-1142358-9403301?v=glance&#038;s=books&#038;n=507846\" target=\"blank\" rel=\"noopener\">To See Differently<\/a><br \/>\n<a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/exec\/obidos\/tg\/detail\/-\/0300084714\/qid=1129946104\/sr=8-1\/ref=pd_bbs_1\/102-1142358-9403301?v=glance&#038;s=books&#038;n=507846\" target=\"blank\" rel=\"noopener\">The Courage to Be<\/a><br \/>\n<a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/exec\/obidos\/tg\/detail\/-\/0679771336\/qid=1129946133\/sr=8-1\/ref=pd_bbs_1\/102-1142358-9403301?v=glance&#038;s=books&#038;n=507846\" target=\"blank\" rel=\"noopener\">A Slender Thread<\/a><br \/>\n<a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/exec\/obidos\/tg\/detail\/-\/014118616X\/qid=1129946158\/sr=8-1\/ref=pd_bbs_1\/102-1142358-9403301?v=glance&#038;s=books&#038;n=507846\" target=\"blank\" rel=\"noopener\">The Sea, The Sea<\/a><br \/>\n<a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/exec\/obidos\/tg\/detail\/-\/081120099X\/qid=1129946179\/sr=8-1\/ref=pd_bbs_1\/102-1142358-9403301?v=glance&#038;s=books&#038;n=507846\" target=\"blank\" rel=\"noopener\">New Seeds of Contemplation<\/a><br \/>\n<a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/exec\/obidos\/tg\/detail\/-\/0062515659\/qid=1129946197\/sr=8-1\/ref=pd_bbs_1\/102-1142358-9403301?v=glance&#038;s=books&#038;n=507846\" target=\"blank\" rel=\"noopener\">The Grace in Dying<\/a><br \/>\n<a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/exec\/obidos\/tg\/detail\/-\/0385481918\/qid=1129946216\/sr=8-1\/ref=pd_bbs_1\/102-1142358-9403301?v=glance&#038;s=books&#038;n=507846\" target=\"blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Tying Rocks to Clouds<\/a><br \/>\n<a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/exec\/obidos\/tg\/detail\/-\/014016930X\/qid=1129946237\/sr=8-1\/ref=pd_bbs_1\/102-1142358-9403301?v=glance&#038;s=books&#038;n=507846\" target=\"blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Angle of Repose <\/a><br \/>\n<a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/exec\/obidos\/tg\/detail\/-\/0060926228\/qid=1129946261\/sr=8-1\/ref=sr_8_xs_ap_i1_xgl14\/102-1142358-9403301?v=glance&#038;s=books&#038;n=507846\" target=\"blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Oleander, Jacaranda <\/a><br \/>\n<a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/exec\/obidos\/tg\/detail\/-\/0393312496\/qid=1129946281\/sr=8-1\/ref=pd_bbs_1\/102-1142358-9403301?v=glance&#038;s=books&#038;n=507846\" target=\"blank\" rel=\"noopener\">The Magnificent Spinster<\/a><br \/>\n<a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/exec\/obidos\/tg\/detail\/-\/B0000C7GFA\/qid=1129946298\/sr=8-3\/ref=pd_bbs_3\/102-1142358-9403301?v=glance&#038;s=books&#038;n=507846\" target=\"blank\" rel=\"noopener\">A Beautiful Mind<\/a><br \/>\n<a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/exec\/obidos\/tg\/detail\/-\/068483376X\/qid=1129946321\/sr=8-1\/ref=pd_bbs_1\/102-1142358-9403301?v=glance&#038;s=books&#038;n=507846\" target=\"blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Succulent Wild Woman<\/a><br \/>\n<a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/exec\/obidos\/tg\/detail\/-\/0385334443\/qid=1129946339\/sr=8-1\/ref=pd_bbs_1\/102-1142358-9403301?v=glance&#038;s=books&#038;n=507846\" target=\"blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Under a Wing<\/a><br \/>\n<a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/exec\/obidos\/tg\/detail\/-\/1570620784\/qid=1129946358\/sr=8-1\/ref=pd_bbs_1\/102-1142358-9403301?v=glance&#038;s=books&#038;n=507846\" target=\"blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Art Is a Way of Knowing<\/a><br \/>\n<a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/exec\/obidos\/tg\/detail\/-\/0743280741\/qid=1129946383\/sr=8-1\/ref=sr_8_xs_ap_i1_xgl14\/102-1142358-9403301?v=glance&#038;s=books&#038;n=507846\" target=\"blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Solitude: a Return to the Self<\/a><br \/>\n<a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/exec\/obidos\/tg\/detail\/-\/0385496095\/qid=1129946408\/sr=8-1\/ref=pd_bbs_1\/102-1142358-9403301?v=glance&#038;s=books&#038;n=507846\" target=\"blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Traveling Mercies<\/a><br \/>\n<a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/exec\/obidos\/tg\/detail\/-\/0452277566\/qid=1129946425\/sr=8-5\/ref=sr_8_xs_ap_i4_xgl14\/102-1142358-9403301?v=glance&#038;s=books&#038;n=507846\" target=\"blank\" rel=\"noopener\">The Healing Circle<\/a><br \/>\n<a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/exec\/obidos\/tg\/detail\/-\/0374153892\/qid=1129946446\/sr=8-1\/ref=pd_bbs_1\/102-1142358-9403301?v=glance&#038;s=books&#038;n=507846\" target=\"blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Gilead<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I haven&#8217;t written a poem in two months, so I turned to my library for inspiration. RecognitionPlaying truth or dare an hour before daylightamong the bean trees, I encounter a stranger at the gate.When I ask what she is doing, she replies, &#8220;Composing a life.&#8221; She seeks to answer the question, &#8220;Is there no place [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[24,28,31],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1165","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-arts","category-humanities","category-social-science"],"post_mailing_queue_ids":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kathrynpetroharper.com\/mindfullife\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1165","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kathrynpetroharper.com\/mindfullife\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kathrynpetroharper.com\/mindfullife\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kathrynpetroharper.com\/mindfullife\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kathrynpetroharper.com\/mindfullife\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1165"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.kathrynpetroharper.com\/mindfullife\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1165\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":10942,"href":"https:\/\/www.kathrynpetroharper.com\/mindfullife\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1165\/revisions\/10942"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kathrynpetroharper.com\/mindfullife\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1165"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kathrynpetroharper.com\/mindfullife\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1165"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kathrynpetroharper.com\/mindfullife\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1165"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}