{"id":1032,"date":"2005-08-05T19:49:18","date_gmt":"2005-08-06T03:49:18","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.kathrynpetroharper.com\/mindfullife\/2005\/08\/05\/why-i-loved-counseling-and-miss-it-so\/"},"modified":"2026-01-21T16:24:58","modified_gmt":"2026-01-22T00:24:58","slug":"why-i-loved-counseling-and-miss-it-so","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.kathrynpetroharper.com\/mindfullife\/2005\/08\/05\/why-i-loved-counseling-and-miss-it-so\/","title":{"rendered":"Why I Loved Counseling and Miss It So"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Though this quote pertains to ministry, the work of psychotherapy was also rooted in what the words below describe.<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>When people come to speak to me, whatever they say, I am struck by a kind of incandescence in them, the &#8220;I&#8221; whose predicate can be &#8220;love&#8221; or &#8220;fear&#8221; or want,&#8221; and whose object can be &#8220;someone&#8221; or &#8220;nothing&#8221; and it won&#8217;t really matter, because the loveliness is just in that presence, shaped around &#8220;I&#8221; like a flame on a wick, emanating itself in grief and guilt and joy and whatever else. But quick, and avid, and resourceful. To see this aspect of life is a privilege of the ministry which is seldom mentioned.<\/p>\n<p>&#8211;Marilynne Robinson, <cite>Gilead<\/cite><\/p><\/blockquote>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Though this quote pertains to ministry, the work of psychotherapy was also rooted in what the words below describe. When people come to speak to me, whatever they say, I am struck by a kind of incandescence in them, the &#8220;I&#8221; whose predicate can be &#8220;love&#8221; or &#8220;fear&#8221; or want,&#8221; and whose object can be [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[28,31],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1032","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-humanities","category-social-science"],"post_mailing_queue_ids":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kathrynpetroharper.com\/mindfullife\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1032","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kathrynpetroharper.com\/mindfullife\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kathrynpetroharper.com\/mindfullife\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kathrynpetroharper.com\/mindfullife\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kathrynpetroharper.com\/mindfullife\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1032"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.kathrynpetroharper.com\/mindfullife\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1032\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":10895,"href":"https:\/\/www.kathrynpetroharper.com\/mindfullife\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1032\/revisions\/10895"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kathrynpetroharper.com\/mindfullife\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1032"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kathrynpetroharper.com\/mindfullife\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1032"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kathrynpetroharper.com\/mindfullife\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1032"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}