Archive for the 'Social Science' Category

Middle School

Thursday, September 12th, 2019

Listening to my daughter talk about her feelings and the dynamics of kid interaction at school, I realize the following: Middle school is “Lord of the Flies” harsh even when it’s a good school; People can be really judgmental, including my kid; A middle schooler wants more than anything to be accepted; the hardest thing […]

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Cognitive Dissonance in Abusive Relationships

Sunday, May 19th, 2019

Victims living in a household where there is narcissistic abuse are living in a torturous war zone, where all forms of power and control are used against them (intimidation; emotional, physical and mental abuse; isolation, economic abuse, sexual abuse, coercion etc.). The threat of abuse is always present, and it usually gets more violent and […]

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Shame-Based Family

Thursday, May 16th, 2019

“If our primary caregivers are shame-based, they will act shameless and pass their toxic shame onto us. There is no way to teach self-value if one does not value oneself. Toxic shame is multigenerational. It is passed from one generation to the next. Shame-based people find other shame-based people and get married. As each member […]

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Indivisible: Resisting Trump

Wednesday, December 14th, 2016

This is making the rounds. Indivisible: A Practical Guide for Resisting the Trump Agenda We wrote this guide because we believe that the coming years will see an unprecedented movement of Americans rising up across the country to protect our values and our neighbors. Our goal is to provide practical understanding of how your MoCs […]

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The Plan Behind the Safety Pin

Sunday, November 13th, 2016

While the idea of wearing a safety pin as a symbol to the marginalized that one is a safe person, it’s more than a symbol. This article provides excellent guidance about the intention behind it and how to act. Such as: Are you willing to help all marginalized groups? You don’t get to pick and […]

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I Cannot Believe

Wednesday, November 9th, 2016

This is not the United States I thought I lived in. I am ASHAMED of this country. What I learned on #ElectionNight: Being a racist, bigoted, prejudiced, lying sexual predator is still more acceptable than being a woman. -Allen Clifton What’s even more demoralizing is knowing how hard Hillary’s worked and how qualified she is, […]

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I Am a Nasty Woman

Thursday, October 20th, 2016

Donald Trump called Hillary Clinton “such a nasty woman” in the last debate, and with that, women rose up to embrace what he meant as an insult. In fact, calling her a “nasty woman” is just a shade cleaner and more acceptable than saying what he probably thought: cunt. When men feel viscerally threatened and […]

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