Archive for September, 2003

The Commute: Living in a Metal Box

Tuesday, September 30th, 2003

Austin is growing up (or out, depending on perspective). As written in the Austin American Statesman:

…the “travel time index,” indicates what percentage of extra time travel takes in each city during peak travel times… In Austin, the travel time index in 2001 was 1.31, meaning peak trips take 31 percent longer than free-flow [...]

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Words to Ponder #21

Tuesday, September 30th, 2003

I write emotional algebra.
–Anais Nin

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How to Be Your Own Best Friend

Tuesday, September 30th, 2003

The psychotherapy community and self-help industry toss around all sorts of phrases, such as “self-esteem,” “the inner child,” and “being your own best friend.” These are worthy concepts but are often difficult to actualize. I mean really, if you don’t like yourself, and it’s your thinking you need to change to become your [...]

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Words to Ponder #20

Monday, September 29th, 2003

The thing about democracy, beloveds, is that it is not neat, orderly, or quiet. It requires a certain relish for confusion.
–Molly Ivins

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Remembering to Be

Monday, September 29th, 2003

I went for a hike yesterday at a local park. Although situated within the city of Austin, the trail winds through land that feels remote. The path is shady, and it winds over a creek in numerous places. The occasional breeze ruffled my hair as I wandered over sun-dappled ground. Because [...]

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Words to Ponder #19

Sunday, September 28th, 2003

Therapists must convey to the patient that their paramount task is to build a relationship together that will itself become the agent of change.
–Irvin Yalom, The Gift of Therapy (2002)

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Hair Today, Gone Tomorrow

Saturday, September 27th, 2003

I’ve been trying to keep weekends free of writing in this blog, as an attempt to shape my time and create boundaries around my work life.
However, since it’s my blog, I get to break my own rules.
There is a blog I read called What’s Brewing, written by a very intelligent and creative [...]

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Words to Ponder #18

Friday, September 26th, 2003

I resent people who say writers write from experience. Writers don’t write from experience, though many are hesitant to admit that they don’t. I want to be clear about this. If you wrote from experience, you’d get maybe one book, maybe three poems. Writers write from empathy.
–Nikki Giovanni

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What Winter Means

Friday, September 26th, 2003

In one month, on October 26, daylight savings time ends. Yet here it is, shortly after 8 p.m. in September, and my woozy, sleepy brain struggles to summon an interesting thought. My eyes are tired and don’t want to stay open. I’ve always been mystified by this. Every year, as the [...]

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Words to Ponder #17

Thursday, September 25th, 2003

To love without role, without power plays, is revolution.
–Rita Mae Brown

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